Feeding Concerns

Feeding Concerns in Children

Feeding concerns are common at many stages of childhood — from infancy through the toddler and school-age years. Whether it’s picky eating, slow weight gain, mealtime struggles, or concerns about intake, our team is here to help guide families with reassurance and practical support.

What Are Feeding Concerns?

Feeding concerns can look different depending on your child’s age and development. Some concerns are temporary and part of normal growth, while others may benefit from medical evaluation and guidance.

Common Feeding Concerns by Age

Families may notice:

  • Infants who struggle with latch, reflux symptoms, or frequent spit-up
  • Toddlers who are picky eaters or refuse certain textures
  • Children who eat very small amounts or skip meals
  • Mealtime battles or anxiety around eating
  • Concerns about weight gain or growth
  • Choking, gagging, or coughing with feeds

What You Can Try at Home

Helpful strategies may include:

  • Offering regular meals and snacks on a consistent schedule
  • Creating a calm, distraction-free eating environment
  • Letting your child decide how much to eat while you decide what is offered
  • Avoiding pressure, bribing, or forcing bites
  • Offering a variety of foods repeatedly, even if initially refused
  • Modeling healthy eating behaviors as a family

When to Call Us

Call our office if your child has:

  • Poor weight gain or weight loss
  • Feeding struggles that cause stress for your family
  • Frequent vomiting, choking, or coughing with feeds
  • Refusal of entire food groups
  • Signs of dehydration or fatigue
  • Feeding concerns during infancy


📞 Call (816) 792-1170 and select option 3 to reach nurse triage.

When to Seek Urgent or Emergency Care

Seek urgent or emergency care if your child has:

  • Trouble breathing during feeds
  • Blue lips or face
  • Severe choking episodes
  • Signs of significant dehydration
  • Lethargy or difficulty waking

How We Evaluate and Support Feeding Concerns

Your provider will review your child’s growth, feeding history, and overall health. Support may include nutrition guidance, reassurance about normal developmental phases, or referrals to lactation consultants, feeding specialists, or therapists when appropriate. Our goal is to support healthy growth while keeping mealtimes positive and stress-free.

Prevention and Long-Term Support

Supporting healthy feeding habits early can help prevent long-term challenges:

  • Establish predictable meal routines
  • Encourage variety without pressure
  • Address constipation or reflux early
  • Focus on growth trends rather than single meals

Schedule an Appointment

If you have questions or concerns about your child’s development, we’re here to help.
Request an Appointment through our online form, or call our nurse triage line for guidance.